I guess I hate it when people suddenly blurt out certain stuffs that can really hurt others. They are so nice and so friendly towards you but after that, they start spilling a lot of shits. I guess, we, humans, judge people too fast just by looking at their physical appearance. It's not just girls, but surprisingly, guys too. I was in this situation where I judge people too fast and too much. Yes, too much to the extent where I had to inform others false rumors and everything start to be chaotic. The reason why I would like to bring out this matter is not because I am going through something so major right now but I witness all of this, which happens at a daily basis. That is not cool. I get so annoyed,sad that I just had to bring it out here since everyone could read this and maybe relate this to what they're going through.
People always say to be yourself, don't change just because you want to please everyone. But seriously, if you say it, you should really mean it. It shouldn't be like one moment you're a counselor and the next day you're part the mean girls. I mean I do go through this problems but not as often as my other friends. The thing is, if judging will not affect anyone, then, go ahead but if it consist of telling others, better stop. I know that to some people it is funny and they think that she or he will not get hurt and just laugh it off. Well, you're wrong. There are limits to whatever you do or say. Okay, let me spill some of mine. I was called tomboy for playing FPS games. For those who doesn't know what is FPS it is first-player-shooter games, like Battlefield or Call of Duty etc. I laughed at that joke but sometimes I just can't because you can't look at me as a guy because of certain stuffs which is NOT even true and you just come up with an inference with an evidence which is NOT a fact but YOUR opinion.
Fact - scientifically proven to be true
Opinion - What one person believes in
Anyways, that was long time ago. Going back to today's topic. Most people go though this and it can go all the way till it reaches BULLY. Bullying could be either that person hates you because of some stuffs or to them, it is really funny and it satisfies them. I'm not going to deny, I was one too because I was bullied a lot of times and I just wanted to bring them down too but revenge is not an option that you should choose. By doing that, you are just loosing the fight. I guess, it is better to no care because caring could sometimes be very troublesome. The thing is, just move on with your life. The people who treat you badly must have their own reasons. If they are smart enough, they know what to do but if not, they will continue hurting you but never take it so personally. You can ask for help but first, you might want to test yourself too because I always do that. Just that, I never really express my feelings towards them because they would either find us self-centered or they wouldn't even bother to listen. So yeah. One more thing is, never choose revenge. Just avoid them and remember that there are seven billion people in this world. You are not alone.
The next topic is cutting. Cutting yourself as in being desperate to escape from this world, bid farewell and you will live happily every after. Well, god might change his mind when you are dead, you never know. Everyone would convince that particualr person to never cut but if they are really stubborn, go ahead. It's not that he or she doesn't care about you but after countless number of reminders, to them, it's useless in telling because it feels like you are pushing them away from you life when they just want to help you solve it and go through it together. People tend to think that they are depress and no one know how they feel. My,oh,my. There are 7 billion people. I repeat. 7 BILLION people. When this happens they shut down themselves which also equals to never thinking about seeing the beauty of life anymore because to them, there is no such thing as 'beauty' in life.
I love telling people that we live for a reason and we should appreciate the fact that we are living and we are exposed to amazing stuffs that others who has by now, passed away, would love to see and touch and feel. To experience. We have not seen the other half of the world because we are too depress in things that just keep on bugging us. It is actually so small. We cry but when we get older, we realised that crying for it was really stupid because now, you have changed. Even though I am going through such a rough time, I will express my emotions to my friends but most of the time, I forget about it an then it suddenly comes back. It doesn't really hits me hard unless I always think about it. It's ok to not be ok. It's ok to cry. It's ok to get mad. Because this shows that you're a human not a toy that they can make fun of. Let them know how you feel sooner or later. Maybe don't directly do it but you know :) .
Right, I think my blog post is really long. So, I am going to stop here but...
Life is a never-ending process when you have not reached your last chapter. Always keep in mind, you're in Divergent , you're Tris. You fight for what is right, You forgive those who are wrong, and You admit what your mistake. Life can be really ugly but always remember, there is beauty in it. But, beautiful things can only be felt when you search for the stars when it is dark and search for the rainbow after it rains.
Till Then :)
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